Feral Cat Day Changes Lives One Community Cat At A Time
Feral Cat Day Changes Lives One Community Cat At A Time. This is a story about a cat named Pepper.
You could call him feral, stray, homeless, a street cat or community cat but I’d call him an angel. Pepper changed my idea about the role of cats in the community.
Alley Cat Allies first launched National Feral Cat Day® on their 10th anniversary in 2001 to raise awareness about community cats, and promote Trap-Neuter-Return of feral cats. We’re long time advocates of TNR and blog about the holiday every year. For the past two years I’ve volunteered my services offering support, guidance and resources at Alley Cat Allies Feral Friends network. It’s straight forward. Anyone with an inquiry, makes a request and gains access to network members within 25 miles of their location. My home number is listed making it easy to connect. I answer questions and help the best I can. If I can’t, I’ll refer other resources.
A call came in a month ago and my husband gave me the message with a few details. “You need to call her. It sounds serious.”
I groaned, “I really don’t want to. I’m so far behind schedule with my black cat book.” Thinking I could buy some time, I emailed the woman instead of calling. She emailed back, explained the situation and my curiosity got the better of me. Across the Hudson River, in another county is an orthodox Jewish community. Cats and dogs are not considered Kosher and most of the residents don’t have pets, or so I thought. Detti, a cat lover from the Chabad community and her husband adopted a gray kitten, Zoe last year. She admitted to not being knowledgeable about cats and worried about Zoe being terrorized by two stray kittens in their garden. It became apparent this was no regular situation and I got on the phone.
To be able to access the situation I needed more information. Words are good but pictures often do tell a 1000 words. It turns out Detti is a filmmaker specializing in Bar Mitzvahs and weddings, and I asked if she could send some pics to help me determine the age of the kittens. From there the story spins out into a rich tapestry beyond my imagination: emails galore, research into Judaism and cats, questions within questions beyond the scope of this post. It’s caused me to think more deeply about the human-animal bond and how cats can be ambassadors of peace at a time of socio-political, religious and cultural differences.
As soon as a photo revealed the kittens were about six months old and sexually mature, there were practical considerations.Time was of the essence to mine the limited resources in the area for assistance with trapping, low-cost spay/neuter. A mobile clinic was coming to the area in October and an vet appointment made. A rescue group proved invaluable. Although Detti had researched and found the group, they hadn’t returned her call. Had I not intervened, she might have given up. Most rescue groups are stretched to the limit and it’s nor unusual the wait or keep trying before reaching. In this case, I tagged the group on Facebook.
This case reminded me how inter-connected our community cats are with the community of humans. One event like beginning to feed stray kittens ripples out. There were health and safety concerns for Zoe interacting with the kittens, hygiene concerns for Detti’s children (washing hands after petting), the decision to de-worm or not, how to trap, where to feed, the relationship between the entire family and the kittens, Detti’s husband worried about being invaded by more feral cats, navigating the opinions of neighbors, some shoo cats away or worse, one neighbor wants to adopt the gray kitten but not the black one. Shades of prejudice. Another neighbor shows a video of what could be the kittens’ father. In a neighborhood where pets are frowned on, the conversation leads to discovery. There are more outdoor “strays” as pets with heated shelters than expected. Neighbors who weren’t sure about spay/neuter are changing their mind. The grey kitten is named Flurry and taken to a vet by a neighbor. Can more conversation lead to a deeper understanding of cats, love and humanity? Day by day the story continues to unfold.
Meanwhile, Detti is bonding with Pepper who has a name, an identity, a future. He grows more loving and less feral with every passing day. He has his own heated home on the porch but his vet appointment is postponed. It would have meant but trapping the day before which Yom Kippur, the holiest day of the Jewish calendar when Jews fast without food or water for 24 hours. Detti says, “Besides me not feeling so well when fasting also I can’t trap animals. We can’t trap animals on shabbos or yom tov. It’s a day of rest for them as well.”
This brings the story of Pepper, a community cat, to an end, for now. My goal was to help Detti find resources to trap, spay/neuter the kittens. In some ways, the story is just beginning.
In taking the time to dig deeper, I’ve discovered it takes a village to save one cat and make all the difference in the world.
I also discovered patience mixed with persistence reaps rewards. When I initially asked Detti for some photos, I was surprised by what she sent. I scratched my head and wondered: how could the person who creates the most sublime wedding videos (she is seriously gifted) produce a so so photograph of cat. I kept gently asking her to document her progress and she quickly found her cat muse. Her images of Pepper and other cats are increasingly sensitive and I predict cats may be her next creative passion.
40 Comments
Detti
Dear Layla!
You are the angel in my life!
I can’t express my gratitude for being there for me and help me on this road! Without you I don’t know where Pepper would be by now!
With your help he is growing so nicely, his fur is becoming so soft and his personality is just becoming more loving with each day. Zoe is not jealous nor nervous anymore. She even tried playing with Pepper 2 days ago
Layla Morgan Wilde
Detti, what a nice surprise. I was going to email you but you saw this already. I’m so happy Pepper is doing well and I’ll be in touch about a vet visit 🙂
Socks, Scylla, Fenris, Tuiren, YinYang & Chimera (ATCAD)
This post was so interesting. We never thought how “religion” could play a roll in having pets and how they are cared for. Thank you for a very informative post.
Layla Morgan Wilde
Thanks so much. It was a new one for me too but we learn by sharing.
Flynn
That’s a lovely story about the community learning about feral care with your help. I hope Pepper soon gets neutered. He is a handsome cat.
Layla Morgan Wilde
Flynn, thanks and I’m pretty sure Pepper will be neutered before long. xox
Ellen Pilch
Excellent post- I agree it does take a village to save a cat. Pepper is a beautiful kitty as are all ferals ( and all cats). XO
Layla Morgan Wilde
Thanks and purrs Ellen.
meowmeowmans
What an amazing story. Thank you for sharing this with us, Layla. Purring that Pepper is neutered soon, and that his great progress continues.
Layla Morgan Wilde
Thanks Kevin, this is only scratching the surface of the story. I anticipate positive progress.
Nellie (who use to be the cat from hell)
Great story Layla! Wes LOVES hearing about Pepper and Detti! Wes can’t wait to see some of her cat videos! (when she starts to makes them!)
Kisses
Nellie
Layla Morgan Wilde
Oh, Nellie that would be magic!
Summer
Feet on the ground! That is awesome, that you are doing good work for ferals!
Layla Morgan Wilde
Yup, I’ve been quietly helping for over 20 years.
Bev Green
What a wonderful story indeed..very informative too..bravo to networking!
Layla Morgan Wilde
Bev, this is the positive side of social media xoxoxo
Tamago
Thank you for the great post. Helping others, good communication lead to understanding and better environment for feral kitties. Pepper is adorable xoxo
Layla Morgan Wilde
Thanks Tamago, we can all make a difference. xoxo
ellen
I didn’t know cats and dogs arent kosher, so thats some new information and very interesting!
Community cats also serve a purpose, and having done TNR for some time, every chance I get, I tell people of the benefits. They are an army of rodent control, they are territorial and contrary to popular belief they dont ‘draw’ more cats, instead they are on patrol and normally keep them out unless they allow them into the colony for whatever reason. I know ‘mine’ will keep unaltered females and males at bay as they know they are ‘trouble’ and let me know they are there and its time to do some trapping.
I LOVE the heated cat house- that is a wonderful thing. I hope Detti find her cat muse, she certainly has a talent for pictures of Pepper.
Cats are a wonder, and Alley Cat Allies does a great job of spreading the word about community cats.
Layla Morgan Wilde
Thanks Ellen, there are so many pieces of information one stitched together will benefit all cats.
Melissa & Mudpie
What an amazing story. Purrs for beautiful Pepper, who is most definitely an angel.
Layla Morgan Wilde
Thanks,Pepper is a special cat indeed.
Cynthia
There is a birth control that can be put in food while waiting for a spay/neuter appointment. It used to be called Feralstat and a vet needs to prescribe it. Many colony caregivers out here in Los Angeles are using it to help maintain their colonies between trapping. Ally Cat Allies should know about it and where to get it.
Looks like beautiful Pepper is on his way to not being a feral kitty. Excellent work, Layla! I find that most people just need some guidance and their hands held about the whole TNR/community cat situation.
Layla Morgan Wilde
Thanks Cynthia. I thought Feralstat was off the market. If know otherwise, let me know.
The Swiss Cats
What a wonderful story ! Great post ! Purrs
Layla Morgan Wilde
Purrs to all of you 🙂
Andrea
All of my present cats are retired ferals or their offspring. Ferals make unique family members. It is possible to tame them although some are more stubborn than others. I only have one truly feral cat outdoors now, having TNR-ed all of the others.
Thanks for a timely post. Like others have written communication is the most important aspect of feral care.
Layla Morgan Wilde
Thanks Andrea and for your longtime commitment to ferals.
The Island Cats
What a great story! We purr for Pepper’s progress. Thanks for sharing this with us.
Layla Morgan Wilde
Thanks and I’ll share an update about Pepper, hopefully about being neutered soon.
Sue Brandes
Thank you for the important post and story.
Layla Morgan Wilde
Thanks Sue 🙂
Cats of Wildcat Woods
Caring for feral cats is truly a community affair! Great story and thank you for helping out. I too was the one people called about situations like this in my old home. It is great that now there are so many knowledgeable feral cat groups to call on for help.
Layla Morgan Wilde
Isn’t it amazing how so much changed in 20 years? There are so many resources now but still much work to do!
Skeeter and Izzy
The single most important thing to help any animal or other living being is to share information! One conversation can and does open up doors and hearts and minds! I do not share specifics about the location of my colonies but I do gladly and frequently share information about Feral cats.
Thank you Layla for sharing this and thank you to Pepper’s peeps and the other peeps in the neighborhood for taking a chance on helping another living being!
Love can change everything and sometimes we don’t realize that we have the love in us but we do.
Luvs
Skeeter and Izzy and the Feral Gang + Twig & Peanut & Romeo & the Angels >^..^^..^<~
Layla Morgan Wilde
Thanks for making a difference for community cats. One shared bit of info is truly transformational.
Sometimes Cats Herd You
We love this story. Feral cat care really is a community affair, and it has impact far beyond feeding and TNRing the cats themselves.
Layla Morgan Wilde
Thanks Julie, it’s really is all about community.
Brian Frum
That was a wonderful and important post Layla. Our Feral Day post got delayed because the Dad was doing the TNR thing.
Layla Morgan Wilde
That is probably the best excuse for not posting. Thank you for your devoted service to community cats xoxo