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TGIF Tips & Giveaway

TGIF New & mews. Last chance to enter our purr-fect giveaway. Two lucky winners will win autographed copies of the hot new book Cat Daddy by Jackson Galaxy. Odin remembers Jackson when he was our house last year and couldn’t wait to get his paws on his new book! To read our review and/or enter the giveaway, leave a comment at Hooked on Cat Daddy

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Oh Jackson, I love you!

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That was no dream, Merlin, wake up!

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Water is life. Summer is hot. Keep your cat’s bowls squeaky clean and replenished with fresh water daily. Cats who eat dry food near more water.

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VET 101: Leaves Of Three, Let Them Be

poison-ivy-cat-garden-vet-101We’ve had an early spring in the North East with lush gardens but not all greenery is welcome. Poison ivy and oak has already been spotted and is the subject for this week’s Q & A with our vet, Dr. Rich Goldstein or as I like to refer to him, Gr. G. The image above (taken from my garden) is thankfully poison ivy-free, for now. If you have a question you’d like answered by Dr. G. please email it to Layla@laylamorganwilde.com with Vet 101 in the subject line.

Q:I have an itchy rash on my ankles that my doctor says is poison ivy. My cats go outdoors but we have no poison ivy in our yard to my knowledge. Now I’m worried the cats will bring it back again and are they at risk for itchy rashes?

A: “Leaves of three, let it be.” Funny how some sayings from childhood stick with you.

Poison Ivy, poison oak, and poison sumac all have a sap in their roots containing an ingredient called urushiol. When the plant is bruised, the sap is deposited on the skin (or fur, or clothing, or shoes), causing an allergic reaction in about 80% of people exposed to it. (Fun fact:  500 people could start itching from the amount of urushiol that could fit on the head of a pin!) Interestingly, just brushing up against an intact plant would not cause the allergic reaction. But in the spring and summer, the leaves and stems of the plants are very fragile and break easily, which is why contracting “poison ivy” is more common at this time of year.

Cats, as a species, tend to be relative resistant to “contact dermatitis”, and don’t usually suffer the same allergic reactions to the urushiol as people. But they can certainly transmit the sap to people just through contact with contaminated fur. (If your cats truly were the culprits here, it would be unusual for you to just get a reaction on your ankles, and not on your hands, but anything’s possible.)

So here are some suggestions for limiting your risk:

  • When the cats come back into the house, try wiping them down with pet wipes to remove any of the sap that may have gotten on their fur during their travels. If you’re sensitive to the sap, wear disposable gloves, and avoid exposing other body parts to the fur.  It has been reported that urushiol oil can stay active on any surface for up to 5 years.
  • It takes approximately 15 minutes for the sap to elicit an allergic reaction on human skin. So, if you think (or know) you’ve been exposed, washing the exposed body parts in warm soapy water may prevent or lessen the reaction. Once the sap has latched on to the skin cells, the rash can last for up to 2 weeks!
  • Plants in this family (Rhus plants, which are in the cashew family) can have many different appearances. There are over 850 species of trees and shrubs in this family! Consider having a gardening professional examine your yard for unusual Rhus plants that might be the offenders. If your cats are travelling next door, ask the neighbors to search their yards as well.
  • For more information on poison ivy, visit  http://poisonivy.aesir.com/view/welcome.html

And if you’re sensitive to the effects of poison ivy, when the local pharmacy is having a sale on calamine lotion, be sure to stock up.

Editor’s note: I tend not to use gardening gloves and agree with having a good scrub or using the garden hose to rinse off shoes and exposed skin after gardening and/or playing outdoors with cats. I highly recommend Tektu lotion for treatment (for both humans and pets) or just in case of exposure before itching begins. While wiping down a cat that you suspect has touched poison ivy, be sure to wipe the paw pads before you come indoors or be prepared to clean the floors as well. A cat can easily track traces of urushiol onto floors. If your cat has already slept in your bed, wash the linen with bleach. If you are certain your cat has rolled around in a patch of poison ivy, they will need a bath. For more advice, visit Tectu.

Swing Into Summer: Pyramid Giveaway

Thank-you to everyone who entered our giveaway for an amazing NVR Miss

Congratulations Nancy Lemmons-Grijalva! You are our winner! Look for a email from Layla. This was one of our most successful giveaways but please include a valid email address when leaving a comment. It’s the only way we can locate the winner. We never, ever sell or use emails.

We have a really cool giveaway for something so fun and different we weren’t sure how our testers would react. We received a combo kitty bed/hangout/perch called The Pyramid from Sturdi Products. For our testing purposes we hung it low indoors but for the summer we’ll be hanging it from a hook on our covered porch for a swinging good time!

Odin, our intrepid tester wasted no time checking out the goods. Gris Gris looked on in amazement.

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The Pyramid offers your pet a safe, fun place to literally “hang out”  as a lookout perch or cozy spot for catnaps. It’s like sitting in a tree! The hanging Pyramid moves with your cat swinging gently in a hammock. Indoors you can hang it from doorway, awning, window or from a hook on the ceiling. Indoor/outdoor cats have many options from screened in or covered porch/decks or even from a tree limb. Creative DIY types, let me know of some other ideas where The kitty Pyramid might be placed.

Designed for safe use up to 30 pounds.

Athletic cats like Odin have no trouble jumping on board even from a greater height. The swaying movement may startle for a while but then curiosity takes over. For less athletic or nervous cats, I’d suggest placing a chair or scratching post /perch for a “leg up” once the pyramid is raised to higher spot.

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After sniffing out every corner of the corner, Odin settled into his new aerie. We suggest keeping the door unzipped.

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The Pyramid retails for $49.95 and is one of many fun carrier/totes/tents for pets available their new online store Sturdi Products

Like to win one? Enter for a chance to win a pet Pyramid by simply leaving a comment and click the Facebook “like” icon at this post anytime until 11:59pm EST May 22, 2012. The winner will be announced next Wednesday May, 23, 2012. Good luck!

New Cat Wisdom 101 subscribers or Facebook fans will receive an extra chance to win. Current subscribers and Facebook fans who Tweet or Pin, Stumble or DIGG will get extra chances to win.

Dimensions: 19.5″L x 19.5″W x 19.5″H *

6 pounds || 50L x 50W x 50H cm • 2.73 kg

This fun unique product is for kitties or small dogs.

  • Durable mesh construction
  • Door zips closed
  • Machine washable and dryable Fleece Comfort Pad
  • Interior peak loop for hanging tots and treats
  • Adjustable Hanging Strap Allows Ceiling to Floor Length to 8 Feet (2,4 meters)

 

Taurus Cats + 1

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Domino is doing double duty today for National Straw Hat Day

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We don’t know when Domino was born but he fits the characteristics of a Taurus to a T. If you’re not sure of your cat’s birthday, take a look at this profile and see if it fits. Taurus cats are born from April 20 to May 20. They are ruled by the planet Venus giving them an earthy beauty and grounded sensibility. Like all of the 12 of the zodiac signs, they have both positive and some less desirable qualities.

On the upside, they are loving, affectionate, often devoted one person cats. Patient, persistent and focused, nothing will keep them from their goals whether it’s snagging the best spot in the sun or an unsuspecting mouse. They’re generally easy going, slow-moving, mellow marsmallows content to lounge on the coziest places. Yes, that means your cashmere sweater. They love the best in everything. They like the most luxurious cushions, the nicest food bowls, the best organic catnip, the top spots to perch and the  The Fancy Feast cats embody the Taurus archetype purrfectly.

On the flip side, they can be possessive and stubborn as a bull. They aren’t the best candidates for leash training and won’t jump through hoops for anyone. If they don’t like something, they’ll let you know with their distinctive meows. They like, no love food, good food and lots of it. Greedy is their middle name. Weight gain can be an issue, so don’t over indulge them which can be hard because of their charm. One chirp and you’re putty in their paws.

They tend to have attractive solid bodies and a thick neck. Their fur is thicker despite their breed standard and love being stoked. Being sensual, they delight in all their senses, they can turn a simple tongue bath into a spa treatment. Massage? Why not, but no Jacuzzi please!

The One That Got Away

It’s Man Cat Monday and the gang is all here.

Merlin: What did I miss? One minute I’m lazing in the sun on the porch with Layla. She’s reading the paper enjoying a quiet Mother’s Day when we hear a blood-curdling shriek.

Odin: I know! The bugger wouldn’t shut up. I’ve never heard something that small cry so loudly. I tried to carry it in my mouth without hurting it to give as a perfect offering for Mother’s Day.

Gris Gris: What kind of gift gives to one mother by taking away from another mother?

Merlin: Is that a Zen koan like what is the sound of one hand clapping?

Domino: Enough philosophizing. It is what it is. That was an impressive feat except this time the prey got lucky.

Odin: Lucky? I dropped it like a nice boy because Layla asked me to.

Merlin: Stop your bickering boys. This tiny bunny is the one that got away. It tricked fate for awhile but has a destiny we can’t know. Look at it as a reminder of how close the line between life and death is every day.

Odin: So, it was a good gift then?

Gris Gris: Well it was a Mother’s Day Layla won’t soon forget.

Layla: Yeah, typing one-handed with a creature in the palm of my hand all day. Thinking it was a vole at first. Trying to feed it with an eyedropper. Feeling its hairless belly wriggle with life on my skin. Feeling as helpless as this blind  creature with it’s heart beating next to mine. Its body no bigger than the fetus that fell to the bathroom floor many years ago. Thanking God for Google. And a cashmere nest, a repurposed cat-proof bird cage cum rabbit hutch. And a nearby wildlife rehab. And the will to live despite the odds.

rabbit-baby-cat wisdom 101Epilogue: at 10am. I auto post at 1:00am ET. After all evening in my hands, little bunny’s life was not in my hands. I placed him inside in a cozy nest on top of a hot water bottle, in the center of an decorative birdcage next to the third floor guest bed where I slept. I wanted to be nearby in case of what i don’t know. In a dream, the birdcage was wide open and two cats sat nearby. Alarmed and angry that the cage was open, I realized the cats were doing no harm and the bunny was alive.

I awoke to Merlin’s sharp claw kneading into my chin to wake me. I pushed him away. He’s never done that before. He returned, relentless, wake up! He knew something. “He’s dead isn’t he?” Just then hubby shows up and peeks in the cage and confirms it. Bunny looked peaceful, his body slack and cool to the touch. I take him into the garden, feeling hot tears and cool grass dew on my feet. Earlier in the spring I’d planted a created memorial of two willow trees by the location Merlin’s sister Coco was euthanized. I’d placed a broken dish with a scene from Noah’s ark. The broken pieces symbolized how everything eventually breaks, no matter how beautiful or perfect.

Odin watched as I dug a hole in the moist earth. He expressed no interest in the dead body or remorse. I pleaded, “Please no more babies!” The moment the words left my lips their real meaning surfaced. I’d never had the opportunity to bury my miscarried baby from many years ago. By placing bunny lovingly wrapped in fresh leaves and returning him to Mother Earth, brought closure. There’s more to this story but all I’ll add for now is how grateful I am for my cat teachers.

Hooked on Cat Daddy: Review & Giveaway

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Odin gives Cat Daddy a four paws rating.

What do you get when you mix sex, drugs, rock ‘n roll with cats? The gutsy, new memoir Cat Daddy:What the World’s Most Incorrigible Cat Taught Me About Life, Love, and Coming Clean by Jackson Galaxy, cat behaviorist and star of Animal Planet’s My Cat From Hell. It’s Mother’s Day, a day when we honor and celebrate women who nurture their loved ones; whether they have two legs or four. Cat moms have big hearts, and then there is the cat daddy, Jackson Galaxy, who healed his wounded heart and soul thanks to one special cat named Benny. This is a story of broken dreams, reinvention, and triumph over multiple addictions and dark despair. By saving the life of one cat, he inadvertently saved his own life.

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Jackson Galaxy with Benny

They say, we don’t choose cats but they choose us. Cats are our secret allies, teachers and healers, if we let them. Benny came into his life sixteen years ago at a time when no one wanted either of them. Jackson, a down on his luck musician and full blown addict, had a hole in his soul the size of a Buick. He found work at a shelter where one of his jobs was performing euthanasia on perfectly healthy pets. By a twist of fate, Jackson’s work with animals led him unwittingly toward his life purpose: making a change in the lives of animals. Slowly and after countless adventures, Benny taught Jackson about life, death, acceptance and love. Once you begin reading, you’ll be hooked by Jackson’s roller coaster ride thanks to Joel Derfer’s co-writing wizardry. Derfer captures Jackson’s voice and turns it into an alchemy of ink on paper.

This memoir, while gritty, grim and at times shocking is ultimately about love and self-acceptance. When we love ourselves, healing happens and anything is possible, and when we share that love with our four-legged friends, real change is possible. The book is chock-full of over thirty nuggets of cat behavior tips including his mentor Anitra Frazier’s now famous “slow blink-I-love-you”. Jackson is a man on mission: to end kill shelters everywhere and teach his cat mojo, his tips for better understanding cats.

There have always been cat whisperers and people who speak “cat” but every generation brings new knowledge and wisdom. Jackson Galaxy speaks to a new generation of cat lovers of every age, race and gender, beyond stereotypes, leading hopefully towards a kinder, more humane world where everyone eventually will understand and speak “cat”.

Because every cat mom deserves a cat daddy, we are offering a special Mother’s Day giveaway. We have not one but two autographed copies signed by the cat daddy himself for two lucky readers to win!

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To enter for a chance to win, simply leave a comment at this post (with a valid email address) and click the Facebook “like” button any time until 11:59 pm ET, May 19, 2012. This giveaway is open to residents of the U.S. or Canada. Two winners will chosen by randomizer.org and announced next Sunday, May, 20, 2012. For extra chances to win, subscribe to Cat Wisdom or our sister blog the Boomer Muse and/or like our Facebook page

If you simply must have a copy right now, click on the Amazon link in our sidebar or visit the cat daddy at Jackson Galaxy

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The publisher Tarcher/Penguin sent me an unedited manuscript of Cat Daddy which I reviewed and several copies of the bound edition. Visit us at the Boomer Muse for an expanded Mother’s Day post. Cat moms, you rock!

Caturday Memory Snapshots

One of our dear readers, the lovely and talented Bernadette Kasmarski left a comment at our video post yesterday. It got me thinking  how lucky we are to have permanent memories of our cats. I have no photos of my first cat, a tiny handful of the others, but a gazillion of our current crew. These days we can snap photos anytime with cameras, cellphones, take videos and have fun galore making precious memory banks for the future.

These are our memory snapshots for the week. Do you have you any favorite shots of you cats? Do you prefer photos, video or?

We spent time in the garden watching nature unfurl in wonder.

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Domino is positively serene after his horrendous summer last year. It was this time last year when the feline brute, Rambo beat him up and left him limping with one abscess after another. Our vet, Dr. G. feared if the six weeks of antibiotics didn’t work, his front, left leg would have to be amputated. Not only did the big D recover but went from feral to a lap cat a few months later.

Domino’s face of misery during his recovery after the abcess was lanced.

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Playing was the last thing on his mind, but this week he and Odin enjoyed their usual Greco-Roman wrestling match.

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Odin took time to smell the flowers while…

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Gris Gris played his usual game of the InvisibleMan Cat and his favorite game,

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voyeur. Not a week goes by without a little adventure. Once again, I missed the drama. While in bed, I hear hubby yelling downstairs, “Odin, stop!” Odin slipped inside the front door with a baby rabbit in his mouth.  Thankfully, he’s learning to drop his catch where it can escape unharmed.

Yesterday, we wandered in the garden enjoying the lush new growth. Gris Gris heard a tinkle in the distance but stayed rooted in his usual non-confrontational way.

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Odin on the other hand raced ahead. I heard a unfamiliar meow. A slinky orange and white cat wearing a collar and the loudest bell ever, clinked its way into a thicket. Odin gave chase and I groaned, here we go again. I could hear the jingle sound but see nothing in the dense thicket. Odin! Come! The jingle sound receded and out bounced Odin. Good job keeping intruders away!

Merlin missed the whole kerfuffle and Odin filled him in on the details. They aren’t usually that chummy, but lately they’ve been napping in the afternoon together in a tangle of brotherly love. All the cats are taking turns spending time with elderly Merlin who reminds me daily how precious and fleeting time is.

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Merlin, who is my wisest cat ever, has good taste in reading material. Stop by tomorrow for our special BIG Cat Daddy Giveaway. Happy memory Caturday!

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Using Essential Oils on Cats

domino-smell-garden-aromatherapy-essential oils-catsShould you or shouldn’t you? The debate rages on over the use of essential oils or aromatherapy on cats. I wrote on article titled Your Cat’s Nose Knows Best. It’s based on my twenty years experience using essential oils and it was published yesterday by our friends at World’s Best Cat Litter. Whether you agree with my viewpoint or not, I welcome feedback from anyone who has used aromatherapy, either essential oils or hydrosols on pets.

This is also aimed at our readers who aren’t on Facebook where we often share content not available here. Holistic health and safety is of paramount importance to us. It’s my hope to open a dialogue for future articles and share how aromatherapy can indeed be used safely and effectively.